Last November my wife of 23 years asked for a divorce. Two weeks after that, I found out that she had an affair 4 years ago that lasted for months. Another two weeks later i found out that she had a healing of her intimacy issues a couple years prior to the affair. Our divorce has gone quickly. By January i was moved out and last month it was final. I recently was told that she is involved with another man. I've always been a firm believer in ' things happen for a reason'. This is one I'm having a hard time with.we have 8 year old twins, who i get every other weekend. ( also very difficult on me) I know God has HIS plans for me but i'm struggling with the acceptance of HIS will.