I don't really know what to "request." He is harsh, mouthy, and unconcerned with his words. I think it comes from low self esteem. He's not an all around jerk, but there are parts to him that are so hard, I am concerned with his relationship with Christ. He never admits to being wrong, and yet I think he values himself very little. I love him and want to see him become a man. Not what he is today.